Teaching Parents The How-To’s Of Daily Online Security & Safety

For the of the Children

My Interview with a 

Convicted Sex Offender

It’s only been 4 weeks since Jerry Sandusky was convicted of 45 counts of child sexual abuse and even now, new information is becoming public regarding who in authority knew what, who was complicit and how these crimes against innocent boys could have been prevented. This past Sunday on Meet the Press, Bob Costas talked about the collateral damage when injustice occurs, such as the possible suspension of the Penn State football program in this case. The old saying is true, “The only thing necessary for evil to flourish is that good men (and women) to do nothing.”I wish I could say I am surprised to hear that an “upstanding leader in our community” has been accused of child sexual abuse. I never am. Perhaps I’m not surprised because I was sexually abused by such a person when I was a young girl. Or perhaps it’s because I see it every day. Am I a cynic? No. Am I a realist? Yes. Research indicates that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused before adulthood; sadly, 30-40% of these victims are abused by a family member and 50% are abused by someone outside the family whom they know and trust. (U.S. Department of Justice)

I had the rare opportunity to interview a convicted sex offender for our Internet Safety 101 DVD series. I thought he would be the ideal person to educate adults, as well as kids, about how predators think, how they seduce and groom their victims, how they view themselves, how they develop a sexual appetite for children and why they decide to act upon that desire.

The young man I interviewed, “John Doe” is currently serving time in a high security prison in Virginia for pleading guilty to forcible sodomy, production of child p*rn*graphy, and online solicitation of children. Like so many of these men, I found John likeable, married, family-oriented, a victim of child sexual abuse, addicted to pornography and child pornography, and genuinely likes kids. You can view a clip of his story here. I also urge all parents, grandparents, teachers and guardians of children to view our short video on How Predators Groom using digital technologies.

Let’s not forget the victims, not only in the Sandusky case, but all the victims; those who have come forward and those who have not. Admitting that you have been abused by an adult is hard, it feels shameful, it’s embarrassing and hard to admit.

When these tragedies come to our attention, as difficult and alarming as they can be, they also serve as teachable moments. So let’s not forget this case, because child sex abuse is happening in our own backyards, in our communities and even in our own families, right beneath our nose and we no longer have any excuse for saying, “I had no idea.” “How can this happen?”

We have to understand as adults, parents, grandparents, educators, and caring adults that we cannot recognize disguised predators, there is no physical profile. And if we cannot recognize them, how can children?

There are however key features typifying today’s predator/pedophile:

  • Blends into society
  • Typically clean cut and outwardly law abiding
  • Usually white, middle-aged or younger, and male
  • Uses position in society to throw off suspicion
  • Can rise to be a pillar of society while actively pursuing children
  • Often engages in activities involving children
  • Appears trusting to both parents and children

Enough Is Enough® (EIE) exists to protect the innocence of children from harms they should never have to face. Let’s not forget that the children in our own lives are not immune from sexual abuse, either online or offline. We created the Internet Safety 101® Program to educate and empower parents and adults to keep kids safe while using the Internet and digital technologies. I urge you if you have a child in your life, to get a copy of our award winning program. It’s really good! We won 3 Telly Awards for the DVD series. The Internet Safety 101® DVD appeals to your head and your heart. Be prepared to laugh, to cry, and above all, to become empowered to protect children from online dangers.

We must be the first line of defense to protect their innocence. Remember, you are the good men and women who can prevent evil from flourishing, in your own family and community, so get your copy of Internet Safety 101® now.

There is something more you can do. We really we need your help Now! Our Congressional funding runs out in September. Will you support us with a donation to help us continue our vital life saving work? Will you forward this email to your friends and family? 

We can no longer do our work without the financial support of caring people like you. Thank you for standing with us. Together we can make a difference to prevent the sexual exploitation of children online and to protect kids on the Internet.

For the sake of the children,

Donna Rice Hughes

President & CEO, Enough Is Enough®

Executive Producer & Host, Internet Safety 101®

 P.S. Please consider making a donation today or getting your own copy of our Telly award winning Internet safety 101® Program for your home, your PTA, or your church.

Our children are our most precious resource. Your partnership is critical to our efforts to make the Internet safer for children and families. As a 501(c)3 non-profit organization Enough Is Enough®greatly appreciates your financial support. It is only with your help that we can continue our efforts to make the internet safer for children and families.

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About the Author:Bill Wardell

Bill Wardell Is A Radio Security Journalist, as well as an advocate for Keeping Our Kids Safe!! With over 20 years of experience owning and operating businesses offline and online. Bill has produced and hosted over 475 radio interviews with industry leaders worldwide. Bill Wardell is well known and respected for his expertise of Online Safety & Security both as an Online Radio Host & Radio Security Journalist.

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